"I'm right, you're wrong" — The Fight That Never Ends
Why winning the argument loses the connection — and what to do instead.
Workshop Series
The Connection Workshop · Live · Wednesdays 7:00–8:30 PM ET · Zoom · $47 per session · Join any session, in any order · 18+. Educational in nature — not psychotherapy.
All workshops
Each workshop stands alone and runs several times a year. Join any session, in any order.
If We Can't Control Our Partner, Why Do We Keep Trying?
The control reflex, where it comes from, and how to put it down.
Why Unleashing on Your Partner Never Gets You Heard
Full volume feels justified — and gets you defensiveness instead of being heard.
The Destructive Force of Retaliation
Payback feels fair in the moment — and costs the relationship every time.
The Withdrawal Trap
When going quiet becomes going missing — and how to come back.
The Art & Skill of Acceptance
What acceptance actually is (it isn't giving up), and how to practice it.
The Discipline of Listening to Understand
Listening to respond vs. listening to understand — a trainable difference.
Responsible Distance-Taking & Responsible Feedback
How to step back without abandoning — and give feedback that actually lands.
Generosity as a Choice
Generosity as a choice, not a mood — and why it's good for you to give.
Why Should I Apologize?
Why an apology matters — and what makes one land.